THE NEW LOVE LANGUAGES - AVAILABLE FOR PRE-ORDER ON AMAZON & GRACEPOINT PUBLISHING
Relationship Intelligence For Wiser Decisions About LOVE
PIONEER OF RELATIONSHIP INTELLIGENCE
Joan Nwosu is an author, technology leader, and pioneer of Relationship Intelligence. She created the REAL Attraction Pyramid™, LACE™, and MRI to help people interpret relationship information with greater clarity.
Her work helps singles and relationship professionals make wiser decisions about love through discernment, structured frameworks, and explainable technology.
Relationship Intelligence begins where information ends.
THE DISCIPLINE
It gives people a clearer way to examine attraction, relational mechanics, and shared direction. The aim is better interpretation of what is present, followed by conscious human choice.
“The quality of your decisions will never exceed the quality of your discernment."
Relationship Intelligence is the discipline of improving relationship decisions through structured frameworks, explainable models, and reflective discernment.
JOAN NWOSU
ONE INTEGRATED BODY OF WORK
Each expression serves a distinct purpose within Joan’s body of work, giving people practical ways to understand connection and make wiser decisions about love.
Five expressions of Relationship Intelligence through a clear philosophy and practical tools.
THE REAL ATTRACTION PYRAMID™
The Pyramid represents structure, not status. Each dimension reveals different relationship information that must be weighed alongside lived experience and behaviour.
Chemistry
What pulls us together?
THE SPARK
Attraction is information. It is not instruction.
Three dimensions. One relationship configuration.
Compatibility
How do we function together?
THE GLUE
Conscious Alignment
Where are we going together?
THE DIRECTION
Sometimes the most discerning decision is simply not deciding more than the available information allows.
Eight engagements and one divorce gave Joan lived evidence. More than twenty-five years in technology gave her the discipline to turn insight into structure.
About Joan
Joan Nwosu is the founder of Love By Design, creator of LACE™, and author of The New Love Languages. She is a Certified Relationship Coach, Certified Human Design Coach, and a 3/6 Splenic Projector. Her work turns lived experience into explainable technology that improves relationship decisions.
I learned love through experience. I now teach it through discernment.
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JOAN NWOSU
RELATIONSHIP INTELLIGENCE TECHNOLOGY
Structured relationship intelligence for better matching decisions.
Structured insight for the moments that matter.
LACE™ is the relationship intelligence technology platform providing structured Human Design-based indicators related to Chemistry, Compatibility, and Conscious Alignment.
It helps turn relationship information into something people can interpret, discuss, and use with greater clarity.
A guided personal Relationship Intelligence experience for understanding a connection that matters.
MRI - MY RELATIONSHIP INTELLIGENCE
LACE EVENTS INTELLIGENCE
Lived experience, observation, behaviour, and conversation remain essential. LACE supplies structured intelligence. People decide what that intelligence means within their lives and work.
LACE FOR PROFESSIONALS
A curated matching and relationship-intelligence system for in-person singles events.
The new love languages book · Pre-order now · November 2026
Discover the patterns beneath how you give, receive, and recognise love. Joan translates ten Human Design Love Gates into an accessible framework for self-awareness and relationship discernment.
The New Love Languages
Unlock Lasting Love Through 10 Human Design Gates
Your Love Gates and connection dynamics
Shadow and gift expressions
Practical reflection for conscious choice
The conversations most relationship advice never have.
Podcasts
Two single dating-tech entrepreneurs. Two countries. Two very different approaches to love. He leads with his heart, she trusts her head.
Join them for unfiltered banter, clashing perspectives and honest conversations about modern dating & relationships, and the question that follows them everywhere: Should they…or shouldn’t they?
The podcast for people who want to understand love more deeply and make wiser relationship decisions.
She explores attraction, compatibility, relationship patterns, and the discernment that helps us see connection more clearly through personal stories, honest teaching, and practical frameworks.
See clearly.
Discern wisely.
Choose consciously.
A NEW DISCIPLINE FOR A DEEPLY HUMAN DECISION
JOAN NWOSU
Relationship Intelligence Pioneer. Author. Certified Relationship Coach. Founder of LACE™
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