JOAN NWOSU

SPEAKER. AUTHOR. COACH

I'm Joan Nwosu — Elite Dating Coach, Author, Speaker, and host of the Love by Design™ Podcast. After navigating my own journey through marriage, heartbreak, divorce, and multiple fresh starts, I learned what no dating app or generic advice ever teaches: Real love isn't found.

It's attracted. For over 2 years, I've helped high-achieving, successful women over 40 break free from toxic dating cycles, embody their feminine energy, and attract aligned, conscious love — without performing, overgiving, or shrinking themselves.

I'm the creator of The REAL Attraction Pyramid™ and Love by Design™ frameworks — powerful, practical methods that blend mindset, feminine embodiment, Human Design, Gene Keys, and spiritual alignment to help women date consciously and by design.

Today, I speak, write, and coach from my own story — showing women how to turn heartbreak into high-value love that elevates every area of their lives. If you're ready to help your audience break old love patterns, I'd love to collaborate

Speaking Topics

1. Feminine energy & magnetic boundaries

Learn how to embody softness without self-abandonment and receptivity without over-giving. True feminine magnetism is grounded in clear boundaries that protect your energy and amplify your attraction.

2. Breaking toxic dating patterns

Uncover the unconscious loops that keep pulling you into the same dynamics with different faces. When you see the pattern clearly, you stop repeating it — and start choosing differently.

3. Human Design & Gene Keys in relationships

Discover how your unique energetic blueprint shapes how you love, attach, and choose partners. This is about understanding who you are in relationships, not fixing yourself to fit someone else.

4. Conscious dating clarity & soul-aligned partnership

Move from confusion and mixed signals to discernment, clarity, and grounded choice. Conscious dating isn’t about finding anyone — it’s about recognizing who is truly aligned.

5. How to shift your frequency to attract devotion, not distraction

Learn how your energy, not your effort, determines what — and who — responds to you. When your frequency is clean and embodied, devotion becomes the natural response.

50+

25

Years of experience

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WATCH THE TALK

Discover how to transform your love life and attract the right partner! This video reveals crucial insights for independent women getting back into dating, addressing the common mistakes that often hold them back.

The 3 Biggest Mistakes Divorced Women Make When Getting Back Into Dating

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PUBLISHED BOOKS BY JOAN

A spiritual practice to manifest your dreams

The 10 Secrets To Getting Up When Life Knocks You Down

Second Chances At Love
Magic Morning Ritual

The Ulitmate Dating Mastery For 40+ Divorced Women

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AWARDS AND RECONITONS
TALKS, PODCAST & INTERVIEW
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