The Body Style People Feel the Moment They Meet You

Attraction doesn’t start with conversation.

It starts with presence.

Before you say a word, people are already responding to your energy.

They feel something.

They make assumptions.

They decide how close or distant to be.

That’s your Profile.

In Love By Design, your Profile explains how you’re experienced by others, especially in dating and early connections.

Not who you think you are.

Not who you’re trying to be.

But the energetic body style you walk into the room with.

Think of Your Profile as Your Body Style

A sports car doesn’t feel like an SUV.

A luxury sedan doesn’t move like a pickup truck.

None are better.

But each creates a very different expectation.

Your Profile works the same way.

It shapes:

• How approachable you seem

• How much depth people expect from you

• Whether others project onto you, lean into you, or feel intimidated

• Why the same dating advice works for others but backfires for you

When you don’t understand your Profile, you start wearing someone else’s costume.

And that’s when attraction gets messy.

Why People Get Confused in Dating

Many people say:

• “People are drawn to me, then pull away.”

• “I keep attracting people who don’t really see me.”

• “They expect more from me than I can give.”

• “I disappear when things feel too surface-level.”

This usually isn’t a communication issue.

It’s a Profile mismatch.

You’re showing up one way.

They’re responding to a different expectation.

Example: The 2/4 Profile

The 2/4 Profile carries two very different energies:

• Line 2 needs solitude, depth, and natural flow. Small talk drains you.

• Line 4 thrives in community and familiar connections, but only with the right people.

On a date:

• You’re uninterested in surface-level conversation.

• You come alive with depth.

• You withdraw when things feel performative or shallow.

If a 2/4 tries to show up like a bubbly, constantly available extrovert, they may attract attention

but not the right attention.

Then both people feel confused.

Nothing is wrong.

The body style was misrepresented.

The Cost of Ignoring Your Profile

When you ignore your Profile, you may:

• Overextend socially

• Force chemistry

• Apologize for needing space

• Feel misunderstood without knowing why

Eventually, attraction turns into exhaustion.

Not because you’re too much or not enough but because you’re out of alignment.

The Shift Is Simple, Not Easy

The shift isn’t becoming more attractive.

It’s becoming accurate.

When you show up as your true Profile:

• The wrong people lose interest faster

• The right people feel pulled in

• Dating becomes cleaner, not harder

You stop auditioning.

You start resonating.

Why This Pillar Changes Attraction

Your Profile is why:

• Some people are instantly curious about you

• Others feel intimidated or unsure

• Some lean in emotionally very fast

• Others keep you at arm’s length

Once you understand it, attraction stops feeling random.

It becomes predictable.

Next, we’ll move to Pillar Four: Your Type, the transmission system, and the energetic field you bring into every interaction.

Because even the right body style needs the right transmission to move smoothly.

And if you want to see how your profile actually reads to others, your Love By Design Blueprint breaks it down so you can stop guessing and start showing up as yourself.

You’re not confusing in love.

You’ve just been misunderstood at the level of energy.

If you’re done repeating the same love in different disguises, the Permanently Break Your Love Loops audio report is waiting for you. This is how Love By Design actually begins, when you stop trying to be someone else.

→ Access the free audio HERE.