THE NEW LOVE LANGUAGES - AVAILABLE NOW . PRE-ORDER ON AMAZON & GRACEPOINT PUBLISHING

Love By Design

Relationship Intelligence
for the New Era of Love

LACE™ — Love Alignment & Compatibility Engine

Dating platforms help people meet. LACE™ reveals whether they are aligned. A proprietary relationship intelligence engine built for platforms, matchmakers, and conscious relationship brands ready to move beyond surface-level matching.

EXPLORE PARTNERSHIP OPPORTUNITIES

REQUEST LICENSING DETAILS

The Problem

Platforms match people.
The question of actual alignment stays unanswered.

Modern dating platforms are exceptionally good at generating connections. Most users still struggle to understand whether a connection has real alignment potential.

Profile data tells you who someone appears to be. Behavioural matching tells you what they say they want. Neither answers the question that actually determines relationship outcomes.

"Are we aligned?"

LACE was built to answer that question precisely — with structured, layered, actionable compatibility intelligence that goes deeper than any existing matching framework.

LACE™ gives dating platforms, matchmakers, and relationship brands a deeper compatibility layer, revealing relationship potential beyond attraction, preferences, and surface-level matching.

Built at the intersection of Human Design, relationship intelligence, and conscious partnership.

Three layers. One precise result.

WHAT LACE DOES

LACE analyzes two people's energetic blueprints across three distinct layers and returns structured, actionable compatibility intelligence.

Chemistry

The Energetic Spark

Measures electromagnetic attraction, magnetic pull, and the quality of initial connection. The spark that brings two people together.

Compatibility

THE FUNCTIONAL FIT

Analyses communication dynamics, decision-making patterns, emotional needs, and how two people operate together in daily life.

Conscious Alignment

THE LONG-TERM POTENTIAL

Evaluates shared values, life direction, growth edges, and relationship sustainability. The layer most compatibility engines ignore entirely.

The Output

A LACE Alignment Index and a layered Love Alignment Report. Clear. Precise. Actionable. Delivered as structured data your platform can surface, interpret, and build on.

LACE Alignment Index

A weighted overall score. Conscious Alignment 40%. Compatibility 35%. Chemistry 25%.

Client-Facing Category

High Alignment, Strong Potential, Growth Required, or Low Alignment.

Chemistry Label

Intense Chemistry, Magnetic Chemistry, Resonant Chemistry, Subtle Chemistry, Initial Spark, or Low Chemistry Signal.

Interpretive Narrative

Premium written analysis across all three layers in clear, user-facing language.

Love Language Compatibility

Pattern Signal Detection

Based on the 10 Love Gates framework from The New Love Languages.

Strong attraction with weak alignment, supportive friendship patterns, high-alignment friction, same-angle different-destination dynamics.

Dynamic Context Line

A single sentence personalized to each pair that explains the story behind the score.

Example: "Your strongest layer is Conscious Alignment at 93%, which points to meaningful long-term alignment. Chemistry is moderate, so this connection benefits from time, clarity, and grounded pacing."

Platform Use Cases

The platforms that will lead the next era of love know alignment runs deeper than preference.

Dating Platforms

Meaningful Match Differentiation

Deliver match insight, premium compatibility reports, and post-match guidance that meaningfully differentiates your product from every other swipe-based experience on the market.

Human Design & Wellness Platforms

Relationship Reports & Partner Analysis

Add relationship reports, partner chart analysis, and coaching add-ons to your existing offerings. LACE extends what your platform already does with a compatibility intelligence layer.

Matchmakers & Agencies

Structured Compatibility Analysis

Bring a structured compatibility layer to client analysis that goes deeper than lifestyle and values alignment. Give your matchmakers a precise framework for the conversations that matter most.

Coaches & Conscious Communities

Relational Dynamics Framework

Give your clients and members a framework for understanding relational dynamics with precision. LACE creates a shared language for conversations that previously had no structure.

How Integration Works

Four pathways.
One engine.

LACE is available through four integration pathways depending on your platform's technical architecture and product goals.

API Licensing

Embed LACE™ into your platform and generate alignment scores and full Love Alignment Reports through a private API. Available at multiple tiers to match your volume and integration depth.

Per-Report Partnership

Offer Love Alignment Reports as a premium upsell or paid feature. Wholesale pricing per report with revenue share available for qualifying platforms.

Strategic Platform Integration

Position LACE™ as a core intelligence layer inside your product. Custom integration, co-marketing rights, and commercial terms tailored to the partnership.

Professional Licensing

For matchmakers, coaches, and boutique agencies who want structured relationship intelligence inside their client process. Monthly report allowance included.

Integration is designed to be clean, private, and protected. User data is encrypted. Reports are individual. The engine runs in the background.

LACE™ is currently in integration discussions with select dating and relationship platforms and is available for a limited number of strategic partnerships.

Partnerships are considered on the basis of product fit, audience alignment, and commercial terms. Not every integration request will be accepted.

All pricing is in USD. Licensing terms, usage scope, attribution requirements, overage rates, and commercial conditions are defined in a License Addendum specific to each partnership. Attribution required on all reports unless otherwise agreed in writing. Prices are subject to change for new agreements.

Tested. Structured.
Grounded in a decade of research.

Currently in Active Use

Where We Are

LACE™ is currently in pilot integration with an emerging dating platform. The algorithm has been benchmarked against publicly available relationship data across diverse couple types and consistently identifies high-alignment connections with meaningful precision.

This is relationship intelligence that is tested, structured, and grounded in a decade of research at the intersection of Human Design, relationship psychology, and conscious partnership.

Relationship intelligence layers analyzed per connection

10+

Years of research at the intersection of HD and relationship psychology

∞

Active pilot integration with a dating platform

Couple type combinations the engine can analyze

Built from lived truth and structured design

About the Engine

LACE™ was created by Joan Nwosu, Founder of Love By Design and Conscious Love Architect. Joan is the author of The New Love Languages, launching November 2026, which introduces the Love Gates framework that informs part of the LACE™ methodology.

LACE™ is a proprietary system. The algorithm, scoring rubric, and methodology are proprietary and protected as confidential trade secrets. Licensing provides approved usage rights only and does not transfer ownership of the algorithm, methodology, source logic, or underlying intellectual property.

The engine is currently active and available for integration through API licensing, per-report partnerships, and strategic platform arrangements.

The next era of love will be built on relationship intelligence.

The Next Frontier

If you are building a platform for people who want more than a match, LACE™ is the intelligence layer your product is missing. Let's talk about what integration looks like for your specific context.

START A PARTNERSHIP CONVERSATION

LEARN ABOUT JOAN NWOSU