What if the key to lasting love isn't doing more but finally understanding who you are by design?
Your HUMAN DESIGN holdS the answer.
This Energetic Blueprint reveals exactly how you're wired to attract, connect, and commit—so you can stop dating from your wounds and start dating from your wholeness.
This is dating by Design, not Default
You're here because you know there's a different way.
You’ve Mastered Success—Why Should Love Be the Exception?
You've built an empire in every area of your life—except the one that matters most to your heart.
You've climbed corporate ladders. Broken glass ceilings. Proven your brilliance time and again.
But when it comes to love, you find yourself asking:
"Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable men when I'm so emotionally aware?"
"How can I excel at everything else but feel like I'm failing at love?"
"Am I destined to choose between my power and being loved?"
The answer is no—you don't have to choose.
It starts with understanding that your programming, not you, is what needs to change.
Here's What's Really Happening:
#1 You’re Dating from Outdated Scripts
You've been following advice designed for women who needed to be "chosen."
But you've already chosen yourself.
The "lean back," "be mysterious," "don't outshine him" playbook wasn't written for someone like you.
No wonder it feels exhausting.
#2 You’re Attracting from Conditioning, Not Design
Your subconscious beliefs are running the show.
You attract what feels familiar—not what's aligned.
You're magnetic… but tuned to the wrong frequency.
You've been dating from your wounds, not your wholeness.
#3 You’re Missing Your Energetic Blueprint
Generic dating advice ignores who you really are.
Your Human Design, your Authority, your unique way of processing?
These aren't quirks to fix. They're your superpowers in love.
If this feels familiar, you’re not failing. You’re just ready for a completely different approach.
Introducing
LOVE BY DESIGN's…BECOME THE ALIGNED ONE™
The proven framework that helps high-achieving women attract aligned love—by becoming more of who they really are, not less.
Who Is The ALIGNED One?
SHE IS....
Magnetically Authentic: She attracts by being herself, not by performing a version she thinks men want
Energetically Sovereign: She knows her frequency and trusts it over anyone else's opinion
Consciously Selective: She chooses partners, not just dates—and her standards reflect her self-worth
Emotionally Regulated: She doesn't need a relationship to feel whole, which makes her irresistible
Spiritually Aligned: She dates from her design, not her conditioning
Powerfully Soft: She leads with strength and receives with grace—no shrinking required
Timelessly Magnetic: She knows her worth doesn't decrease with age—it deepens
Unapologetically Evolved: She's done performing for love and ready to be chosen for her truth
SHE IS THE FUTURE VERSION OF YOU ....
Are You Ready to Stop Performing and Start Attracting?
I've been where you are.
The high-achieving woman who had everything figured out except love. Eight engagements. One divorce. I attracted the same patterns. Fell for potential over reality. Wondered why success in every other area didn't translate to my relationships.
After 25 years in corporate and countless heartbreaks, I discovered the missing piece:
I was dating from my conditioning, not my design.
I don't claim to have "found my prince"—I'm still writing my love story. But what I have found is something more valuable:
The clarity to break generational patterns
The framework to attract from alignment
The courage to trust my frequency over my fear
What sets me apart?
I teach from the journey, not the destination.
As a 3/6 Splenic Projector, I'm designed to transform through experience and then guide others with the wisdom I've gained. My Aries Sun brings fire and courage. My Scorpio Moon brings emotional depth. And my defined Head, Ajna, and Throat mean I turn insight → clarity → communication naturally.
I blend:
Strategic thinking (hello, former corporate director)
Spiritual depth (Human Design, energy work, embodiment)
Real-world application (dating in your 40s+ isn't theory—it's my reality)
WHAT SETS ME APART...
Hi, I'm Joan
Your Aligned Partner Is Out There—Are You Ready To Call Them In?
Ready to Transform Your Love Life by Design?
BECOME THE ALIGNED ONE
The 6-Month Transformational Journey
My signature program where high-achieving women learn to date from their Human Design—not their conditioning.
In 6 months, you'll move through:
Phase 1: Decode Your Design™ (Months 1-2)
Understand your energetic soul blueprint—Dating Archetype, Love Gates, Authority & Strategy
Phase 2: Embody Your Magnetism™ (Months 3-4)
Radiate your authentic frequency—authentic voice, magnetic presence, self-trust, aligned vision
Phase 3: Date With Discernment™ (Months 5-6)
Apply the REAL Attraction Pyramid™—strategic positioning, sacred progression, real-time support
TESTIMONIALS
Not Sure Where To Start?
📝 ARTICLES & INSIGHTS
Weekly on LinkedIn & Blog
Written teachings on Human Design for love, pattern recognition, embodiment practices, and the philosophy of aligned partnership.
DECODE YOUR DESIGN
Personalized Human Design Reports for Love
Choose from various personalized reports that reveal your unique energetic blueprint for love.
🎓 LOVE BY DESIGN MASTERCLASSES
Monthly Live Training
Deep-dive workshops on specific topics—Dating Archetypes, Love Gates, the REAL Attraction Pyramid, and more. Live teaching with Q&A.
🎙️ LOVE BY DESIGN PODCAST
Weekly Episodes
Deep conversations on Human Design, dating archetypes, love gates, and conscious partnership. The philosophy behind becoming the aligned one.
🔐 DATING BY DESIGN PRIVATE
Free
Exclusive audio series on dating by your Human Design. Get immediate access to transformational teachings not available anywhere else.
🎬 VIDEO TEACHINGS
Monthly on YouTube
Visual teachings, archetype breakdowns, framework explanations, and embodiment practices. See the concepts come alive.
💌 ALIGNED LOVE NOTES
Monthly Newsletter
Curated insights, framework teachings, and aligned love wisdom delivered to your inbox.
📞 WORK WITH ME
Become The Aligned One™ Program
The 6-month transformational journey for high-achieving women ready to date by design. By application only.
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Email: joan@joannwosu.com